Creation from a Divine Space
The ego is our sense of self-importance. It's the part of us that believes we are the center of the universe and that everything revolves around us. And while a healthy ego is essential (we all need to believe in ourselves), an overinflated ego can be destructive. Stacey Herera
Confessions on the Journey - I have been thinking - a whole lot lately- about my ego (the destructive part)
Why? Over the past few weeks I have been doing quite a number of interviews, meetings and meet ups. Some of them have not been going the way I anticipated.
Rejection is a bummer! Hearing no has been a reminder that keeping my self confidence high despite the appearances is important. Hearing no has also been one where I thought, how could they ever say no to me? This is where the ego stepped in. I mean after all, its me! Akosua!
Keeping everything in balance has been the challenge. Falling into a state of feeling depressed or falling into a state of self importance. Both can be destructive.
When the ego is out of balance, the result can be drama, unhealthy competition and escape usually through unhealthy mechanisms.
How have I been dealing with these feelings?
1. Self Awareness - being aware of when the ego is coming out of balance and wanting more and more attention
2. Reminding myself that I get to choose how I tell the story, rejection or redirection? My choice
3. Staying humble - practicing humility
4. Love yourself through it
Peace