Learn to Recognise Your Motives
learn to recognize your motives for making your choices in life. When motivated by fear or money or insecurities, you’ll make choices of equal quality. And those choices will fit the quality of your motivation. Carolynn Myss
There are those who say that our lives reflect the choices and decisions that we make.
Even when we are faced with matters that are outside of our control, we have to make a decision which is reflected in our response to the circumstance.
When we know who we are and what motivates us, our decisions reflect that.
When we make decisions in fear and not enoughness, the result of these decisions are reflected in our lives.
It is a challenge to go against the status quo, to go against the trends, to make unpopular decisions, we are socialised to be nice- particularly women. Grin and bear it.
When we make decisions from a people pleasing space, we diminish and devalue our voice. We lose too because trust me, not everyone will like you or the decisions that you make.
Know who you are
Know what motivates you
Know this in the depth of your soul
Then, act like you know
Peace
Have you read any of Akosua's work?
What Did I Learn Today? Lessons on the Journey to Unconditional Self Love
Nyabo (Madam) - Why Are You Here?
Daily Lessons on the Journey - A Journal
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