[What did I learn today? Lessons on the Journey to Unconditional Self Love] Bondaries
Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves,
even when we risk disappointing others. We can't base our own worthiness on
others' approval (and this is coming from someone who spent years trying to
please everyone!). Only when we believe, deep down, that we are enough can
we say "Enough!" Brene Brown
How do you set boundaries? Do you have boundaries? Do you know what
boundaries are? How can I set boundaries? These are questions that surfaced
in my pool yesterday
Why? I believe it did because of my deep desire to keep the peace, people
please, and avoid confrontation. This week working with a team showed me
that I must choose courage over comfort and set some boundaries for myself
- and that involves me knowing without a shadow of a doubt what I want,
what is okay for me and knowing that whatever the outcome of letting people
know this I will be okay
Pretty sobering thoughts right there
Onwards to setting boundaries....
Peace!
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Posted By Blogger to What did I learn today? Lessons on the Journey to
Unconditional Self Love on 4/23/2016 04:58:00 pm