Life’s Tests Are Not a Sign of Abandonment—They’re a Call to Rise
Don't be discouraged when you are being tested. Don't register when you are being tested that there is something "wrong" or that you are being abandoned. Now its time to step it up, to act like you know Rev Deborah Johnson
Life has a way of throwing curveballs when we least expect them. Whether it’s a sudden setback, a challenging relationship, a career hurdle, or an internal struggle, these moments can feel like tests. And in those moments, it’s easy to feel discouraged, to wonder if we’ve done something wrong, or even to feel as though we’ve been abandoned by the universe, God, or whatever higher power we believe in. But what if these tests aren’t a sign of abandonment? What if they’re actually an invitation to step up, to grow, and to prove to ourselves just how capable we are?
The Misconception of Abandonment
When life gets tough, it’s natural to feel alone. We might ask ourselves, “Why is this happening to me?” or “Why does it feel like I’m being left to figure this out on my own?” These questions stem from a deep-seated fear of abandonment, a fear that we’re not supported or loved. But the truth is, life’s tests are not evidence of abandonment. They are evidence of trust.
Think about it: when a teacher gives a student a difficult exam, it’s not because they want to see the student fail. It’s because they believe the student is capable of passing. Similarly, life’s challenges are not designed to break us; they are designed to build us. They are a sign that the universe (or whatever force you believe in) trusts us to handle what’s being thrown our way.
The Purpose of the Test
Every test in life serves a purpose. It might be to teach us patience, resilience, or humility. It might be to push us out of our comfort zones and into a space where we can discover strengths we didn’t know we had. Or it might be to remind us of our priorities and values, helping us realign with what truly matters.
When we shift our perspective and see challenges as opportunities for growth, we stop resisting them and start embracing them. Instead of asking, “Why is this happening to me?” we can ask, “What is this trying to teach me?” This simple shift in mindset can transform our experience of hardship from one of despair to one of empowerment.
This doesn’t mean we won’t feel fear or doubt. It simply means we won’t let those feelings stop us. We’ll acknowledge them, learn from them, and keep moving forward.
So the next time you find yourself in the midst of a challenge, remember: this is not the universe turning its back on you. This is the universe believing in you. It’s time to step it up, to act like you know, and to show yourself just how strong you truly are.
Because you are stronger than you think, wiser than you know, and more capable than you realize. And this test? It’s just another opportunity to prove it to yourself.
Peace and Blessings