Not Interested in Competition

Not interested in conflict, competition or guilt Carolyn Myss

One of my very good friends told me that I compete only with myself. I found that to be both a reminder and a testament of how I want to live.

I want to be my best me. I define my best me as eating well, resting well, working well and sharing well.

Well meaning with the view that I am doing what is the absolute best thing for me in that moment, and when the best is with me and within me, I can share from that cup of wellness.

Many times before I have made many decisions from a space of guilt and competing with others. I have learnt that this method promoted my feelings of not enoughness. There was no amount of peace I got from comparing where I was and what I had to others. It really just made me work more and more without purpose.

Having felt these feelings of not enoughness, guilt and overwork, I vowed that I refuse to feel that way ever again and decided to concentrate on doing my best in the moment.

Some days I may be not be feeling 100% and on those days I still focus on doing my best in the moment minus guilt.

Peace

Have you read any of Akosua's work?

What Did I Learn Today? Lessons on the Journey to Unconditional Self Love

Nyabo (Madam) - Why Are You Here?

Daily Lessons on the Journey - A Journal

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